25 Apr 2004 #0417.html

Colby's Second Birthday

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Dear Paul and Kate, Melanie and Jared, Bridget and Justin, Sara, Ben and Sarah, Heather, Audrey, Rachel, and Matt via hardcopy,

cc: file, Andrea, Tony Hafen, Sara and Des Penny, & Maxine Shirts

Welcome to "Thoughtlets." This is a weekly review of an idea, belief, thought, or words that will hopefully be of some benefit to you, my children, with an electronic copy to on-line extended family members. Any of you can ask me not to clutter your mail box at any time.

"I spent all week looking forward to Colby's second birthday. Maybe I was looking forward to the cake, or maybe just to be out of Houston and in the country. I got a call early in the week from Rob saying he would like to ride over with me, and then Roice and Sarah said they would like to ride over with me. So when all is said and done, I was mostly looking forward to spending time with some of those I love whom I do not have much communication with. I was not disappointed.

I've started to enjoy the time listening to the Audio-Tech books on tape as I commute into work. For instance, on Monday I was listening to a tape and it included a challenge to make a list of things that make us happy and unhappy, as well as things we consider successes and failures in our life. Most of the things that really matter in each of these four categories are tied to you kids and family. It makes me very happy to be invited to and to anticipate attending Colby's second birthday party. It makes me sad that Sara and Heather and Audrey and Rachel and Matt and Ben and Sarah and Ethan and Paul and Kate and Grant and Sara and Bridget and Justin could not be there with us. I consider it a success that I have a reasonable relationship with each of my kids. I write too much about what I consider my failures, and I need to not focus on this aspect.

Tuesday morning I called Sara and talked to her from 6:00 until 6:28 She has moved into a new place. It does not have mold on the walls, and the roof doesn't leak during the rainy season. She has a shower and a toilet that works, which she really likes. It is a gated group of houses with a guardian who watches out for the houses all night, each night, which I really like. She was getting ready for a house warming party on Saturday, and said she will be buying a chicken, killing it, plucking it, cleaning it, cooking it, and serving it to her friends. When I told Andrea she said she remembers her Mom talking about doing all of this, and that it is only one generation away from when this was common practice. On the way to work I wrote a possible stanza for Prime Words, based on an Audio Tech tape, I think it was `Agile Business for Fragile Times' (a):

`We do better in life and business By not following the herd Rather by getting off the bus And listening and speaking to be heard (a)'


Then at lunch I was reading from State of the World 2004 and wrote a couple of possible stanzas based on quotes from (a) Lao Tzu (page 178, a) and Stephen Jay Gould (page 179, b):

`To know when you Have enough is to be rich(a) Too many don't have a clue Driven by the consumption itch' `We must develop an emotional And spiritual bond with nature For we will not fight to save What we do not love' (b)


Tuesday evening I went by St. Luke's Hospital to visit Adam and Matt Salt. The kidney transplant from Adam to Matt went very well, and both are doing fine. In fact, they had left the hospital earlier in the day, and so I did not get to see them. Oh well!

Wednesday we had meetings with INT, a software development group that is being considered for development of GDC's next software package. At first I thought this was going to be competitive with the Spotfire stuff I have been doing. However, it turns out it complements what I have been working on very well. Time will tell how it turns out.

Thursday I wrote a couple of possible stanzas based on an Audio Tech tape titled `If your life were a business would you invest in it' (c):

`Run your life like a successful firm Find vision for the long term Plan for the medium term And manage the short term' (c) `Budget distinguishes between Things we have to do Things we just do to be seen And things we want to do' (c)


Andrea went to Salt Lake Thursday afternoon, the first discounted plane fare as a result of Audrey working as a stewardess. Audrey and she visited the Staheli kids and also Paul and Kate and Grant. She painted Audrey's new room, helped move all of her stuff up from Uncle Randy and Aunt Kathryn's, and seemed to have thoroughly enjoyed her time with Audrey. Much better than a year ago. I look forward to when this type of relationship and weekend is part of our normal interaction with each of you. Thursday I left work at 5:00 and was able to get back to the house, pick up the Armageddon painting Ken had loaned Andrea for seminary and Sara's painting, drive out to New Ulm, talk briefly with Ken and Nell, and get back to Katy in time to pick up Matt from Driver's Training at 7:45. This was the first time I have pointed out the get trail in Sara's painting goes right through the World Trade Center Towers to Ken. I intended to capture his reaction as a digital video clip. However I forgot the digital camera. Ken didn't have much of a reaction. Nell had much more of a reaction. The annual New Ulm Art Festival was on Saturday, and so I left Sara's painting with them to show off, and it would have been nice to have been able to capture what they said about the painting now that the see how it foretold the temporary nature of man's creations like The Word Trade Center Towers. I do believe there are folks who can see across time and predict the future, and this was a little boost to my testimony of this. Also, Ken let me borrow a g-clee of his latest painting of the US flag with several hundred ghost portraits. It is a powerful painting. It took him 8 months to paint.

Friday morning I substituted for Andrea at Seminary. I enjoyed it. Hopefully the kids got something out of it. It was interesting watching Matt interact. Ajay Kelsey called and one of the things he wanted to talk about was how Matt is doing. I told him he is very social and can talk to anyone, and he struggles in school. Ajay said you have to be able to do both in life. I said, I know, and it is sometimes a hard lesson for kids to learn. He said, `That's the difference between here and India. In India the father forces the children to do what he thinks they need to do, making everyone unhappy, and here you let them suffer the consequences of their choices.' I smiled to myself, because I'm certainly guilty of attempting to push kids too hard to do what I think is important for them to do. Oh well! I am sorry to those of you who feel like I pushed you too hard. For what it is worth, it was not out of an effort to better myself, rather it was because I love you and want the best for you in everything you choose to do.

Friday was really frustrating at work. I could not get some coordinates I had been working with to work out. It turns out that the program creating the coordinates is not working. Then there was problems building a spread-sheet, as it was too big for the computer I have. It took all day to do what should have taken a couple of hours. Oh well.' I actually worked on it until 6:30, and solved most of the problems. Should be able to finish up within an hour of getting in on Monday morning. I did not bring the computer home because I knew there would be no time to work on it, between Colby's second birthday party and going to the temple on Friday night, and because I did not want Matt playing `The Devil' (Diablo) on it every spare minute all weekend.

Matt called and when I asked if he wanted to do something with me and he said `No,' I decided to attend the Ward Temple Night. Matt ended up going to the Katy Mall with his friend Andrew. I got to the temple at 7:10, just as the Pickerd's arrived. Then I realized our Ward session was suppose to be at 7:00. Oh well! The Pickerd's just did sealings, as they had to pick up kids. I was the only member of the Nottingham Country Ward in the 8:00 session. It did give me about an hour to read in the chapel. The Pickerd's had gone to Nauvoo for Spring Break, and I'd asked Mike to look at the property across the river, based on D&C Section 125:1-4, but not telling him about my Thoughtlet on Zarahemla (../0249.html):

`What is the will of the Lord concerning the saints in the Territory of Iowa? Verily, thus saith the Lord, I say unto you, if those who call themselves by my name and are essaying to be my saints, if they will do my will and keep my commandments concerning them, let them gather themselves together unto the places which I shall appoint unto them by my servant Joseph, and build up cities unto my name, that they may be prepared for that which is in store for a time to come. Let them build up a city unto my name upon the land opposite the city of Nauvoo, and let the name of Zarahemla be named upon it. And let all those who come from the east, and the west, and the north, and the south, that have desires to dwell therein, take up their inheritance in the same, as well as in the city of Nashville, or in the city of Nauvoo, and in all the stakes which I have appointed, saith the Lord.'


Mike said they did not make it across the river from Nauvoo. So while I was waiting in the chapel I reread Section 45, which was important to me when I was serving my mission. Especially verses 62-75 where it talks about `the New Jerusalem, a land of peace, a city of refuge, a place of safety for the saints of the Most High God.' Then I remembered in China when Dave Johnson talking to me about the New Jerusalem as recorded in Revelations 21. Looking this up it was specifically verses 16-17:

`And the city lieth foursquare, and the length is as large as the breadth: and he measured the city with the reed, twelve thousand furlongs. The length and breadth and height of it are equal. And he measured the wall thereof, an hundred and fourth and four cubits, according to the measure of a man, that is, of the angel.'


The footnote says that a furlong is the same as a Greek stadia, and a Greek stadium is 607 English feet. This means the city is a cube with 1,398.5 miles on a side ([12,000 x 607]/5,280). Note that the International Space Station flies at an altitude of between 212.5 and 262.5 miles, which is about 1/6th the height of the city as described in Revelations. However, if there are a space-elevator at each corner of the city, then it could meet these criteria (although there would not be much living above 10 miles without habitation units). Uncle Des' calculations (http://www.walden3d.com/space_elevator, ../0249.html and ../0250.html) show that by locating a satellite at 44,000 miles elevation `the cable would float around with the earth, hanging vertically, every part of the cable and the satellite would be in geosynchronous orbit!' So I wonder what happens if the satellite is at 1,398.5 miles elevation? For your reference, according to the encyclopedia we have the troposphere is the first 10 miles, then the stratosphere is the next 20 miles, then the mesosphere is the next 20 miles, then the thermosphere is the next 250 miles, then the exosphere is the next 2,000 miles, which takes us out to about 2,250 miles, which includes the 1,398.5 mile high top of The New Jerusalem. For your reference, Mount Everest is 29,040 feet in elevation (5.5 miles high).

The bottom line is that John the Revelator's description of the vertical axis of the New Jerusalem seems hard to mesh with known science unless it is a space elevator or a space mirror (like I told Todd Staheli he and I were going to build some day, as recorded in Thoughtlet ../0249.html and ../0349.html). Even his description of the height of the wall around the city is hard to understand, but it certainly is feasible. After all 144 cubits is 210 feet at 17 1/2 inches per cubit or 222 feet at 18 1/2 inches per cubit. With all of the concerns about border control into the United States, I can imagine a 14 story (15 feet per story) fence around the United States.

The horizontal axes are something else. There are not many places on the face of the planet where there can be a 1,398.5 mile by 1,398.5 mile entity, call it a city or a place. However, Joseph Smith taught that the New Jerusalem would be built at Independence, Jackson County, Missouri. It is interesting to take a map, which I did and attached, and show what area is covered by a square centered at Independence Missouri. It goes from Saskatoon, Canada to the southern tip of Texas and from Salt Lake City to Washington D.C. It includes all of the major oil reserves in the Gulf of Mexico, but does not include Las Vegas nor New York City. I expect some of you will find this a very weird line of thinking, and for what it is worth, I think it is exciting. After all, it will be Colby Cade Wright, and his descendants who will most likely build the New Jerusalem, it's walls, it's buildings, it's temples, and it's sacred places. Despite all of the negative news of our times, there are some very positive things that will come through after the prophesied trials and tribulations occur. I hope each of you will always find some way to look at the glass as being half full.

Saturday I woke up early, showered and got ready for Colby's second birthday party. It was raining. I took Matt to his football scrimmage, but it was called off because of the rain. He went with me to Walmart, where we got Colby some presents. Rob, Roice, and Sarah rode with me over to Vidor. Rob had a bag of trail mix, and I ate too many swallows. It was a very nice day. I did forget to put in an extra mini-cd for the digital camera, and so there were not that many pictures of Colby's second birthday party. Oh well!

What a party. It was raining outside, and so it was in the Wright's living room. There was crape paper and balloons and lots of people. There was pin the nose on Elmo, and then there was an Elmo piņata. Rob kind of stole the show with both of these. It was fun. Colby did a good job of opening presents, and he also did a good job of sharing with the other kids. He got 3 bubble blowing guns and about 12 bottles of bubbles. I've never seen so many bubbles in one room as when they were all shooting them out. Reminded me of the old Doris Day movie where a box of detergent is dumped in a swimming pool. There was a big Elmo cake with two candles on, which Colby blew out with a little help. There was pizza, pop, and apple slices to go with the cake. Everyone had a lot of fun. Brother Wright was working, and he came in for a few minutes and then went back to work.

Melanie and Jared took us to see their new house. I'm impressed, even if they did cut down all of the trees. I've been assigned to build Colby a fort. Roice and Rob did not realize the fort in Missouri City was based on Buckminster Fuller ideas. I did not realize you kids used to bury each other in the sand pile and make it look like it was just sand under the fort. I guess there were secret tunnels and everything. Just like when I was growing up. When Melanie showed me where her painting will go I asked her if she would be willing to do Mom's temple work for her. We both teared up. I was going to wait and do it in St. George, and we will just do it at the Houston Temple, once Taylor can be left for a few hours without needing to nurse.

Rob, Roice, Sarah, and I stopped at Wright's bar-b-que and ate dinner. I really enjoy the food. It rained pretty hard on the way back. We got back about 8:00, and Rob was supposed to be at work about the time we got back. I got the mail, and picked up Matt from work at 9:45.

Today seemed quiet at church without Andrea. A visitor named Alan Graff attended. We had a nice discussion. Alice Beckstrom was substituting for Greg Branning in Gospel Doctrine. I wrote a possible Prime Word's stanza based on her comments about Jarom 1:3 (a):

`The hardness of our hearts (a) and The blindness of our minds (a) Are important to overcome In order to find the truth which binds'


I cooked spaghetti for lunch. Andrea got back home about 3:30. She sat next to a Seminary Teacher from Victoria, and said there was another LDS couple from Midland she met. However, she had strong words about the possibility of Matt having a make-up soccer game because of all of the rain on the Sabbath. Interesting. Scott Whitrock and I did our Home Teaching this afternoon. Tim Gebauer and Andrew Salt came by to Home Teach us this evening. And I spent the rest of the day writing about my reactions and thoughts about Colby's second birthday."

I'm interested in sharing weekly a "thoughtlet" (little statements of big thoughts which mean a lot to me) with you because I know how important the written word can be. I am concerned about how easy it is to drift and forget our roots and our potential among all of distractions of daily life. To download any of these thoughtlets go to http://www.walden3d.com/thoughtlets or e-mail me at rnelson@walden3d.com.

With all my love,
Dad
(H. Roice Nelson, Jr.)

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Copyright © 2004 H. Roice Nelson, Jr.